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Are we losing ourselves to hustle culture by endlessly pursuing goal after goal, without actually stopping to ask ourselves, is this even...

“All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.” It’s a saying for a reason, people and if you’re like every adult over the age of 40 I...

Can you buy happiness? Then, why do we still spend so much time trying to? And if happiness isn't in our purchasing power, or in our...

Feeling the longing to rediscover your feminine side? That side of you that you’re required to put aside for work, that side that maybe...

Beauty is seasonal, always. And so is pleasure for that matter. It’s always to be found in the world right around us. It behooves us...

Ready to up-level your life and fun? Is it time try something new, something Bolder? Our lives grow in proportion to our willingness to...

I’ve said it before, I’ll say it again, and I’ll keep saying it: your boldest self, no matter who she is, is found within who you...

“Fortune favors the Bold,” in life (and style). So if we want to move forward and make waves in our lives we have to learn to live...

Love them or hate them, Fashion and Women’s Magazine Editors, even the fictional ones are often the bad girls of the business world. ...

Are you getting used by coworkers, manipulators and the narcissists in your life? Don’t know how to “nicely” say “no,” as a people...

You deserve to have fun playing up your style, and that includes your femininity, i.e. your girly, sexy, fun side! And I've got two fun...

What do bad girls, fashion designers, and artists of all kinds know about getting *exactly* the life you want, that you don't? Read on...

Does your life feel “off the rack” ie not really yours? Is it boring, average, filled with everyone else’s agenda? There’s reason for...

Dear Desirée: In this week’s column a reader asks, what to do if you don't have any dreams or desires any more? If you've lost yourself...

The key to making this year different? So easy. Pick a better goal. One that gives you excitement and joy. No more stale dreams based...

Been cranky and out of sorts lately? Has it been a little hard to get up in the morning? Have you finally put away all the Holiday...

Feeling hopeless? Lost in despair or hard times? Need to find some hope and a little light to cling to in the meantime? I've got you...

Dear Desirée: In this week’s column a reader asks, how do you deal with someone you love being hellbent against your dream? What if you...